A: We do not know here if the questioner is a man or a woman, but let’s proceed as though it doesn’t matter. Sometimes people want to “hook up” when they are not connected, thinking sex will bring the intimacy they are lacking. And that might work for the short term, but it will not bring emotional intimacy. Men and women should spend time connecting emotionally through dialogue, energetically through eye contact and breathing, and physically through “skin time”. All of these can be found in “The Intimate Couple” by Dr. Jack Rosenberg and Beverly Kitaen-Morse.
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